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What to Do When You Can't Afford Preschool

by Mary Ann Romans | More from this Blogger

10 Dec 2008 12:38 PM

abc If you find yourself in a situation where preschool is out of reach financially, what do you do? Is your child doomed to fall behind before she even reaches Kindergarten? Will he grow up to be unsocial and labeled slow if he doesn't attend the best early learning program?

Research does show that early childhood education in the form of a quality preschool program does give children an edge over those who do not attend. But with preschool costs soaring, not everyone has the option of sending their child to preschool.

Before you panic, let's review a few things.

First, those studies that talk about the advantages of preschool don't take into account children who learn at home in a loving home environment. There is no reason that you could not teach the same curriculum at home. Even if you don't plan on homeschooling, you can introduce your child to letters, numbers, colors, shapes, songs and writing his name. The Internet is full of free resources to help. Attending playgroups or just taking your child to the park will introduce her to a social environment. Check out the Homeschool Blog for more information.

Second, you may have the option of free preschool through your state's Head Start or Early Learning Program. Just do a search for "free preschool," or "Head Start" along with your state name. It is true that recent budget cuts may make qualifying for these programs more difficult, but it may be an option.

Third, to get back to homeschooling, many homeschool organizations offer a co-op, where parents get together and teach anywhere from one to three days a week at a central location. Generally there is a tiny annual fee and the commitment to contribute time to the group, such as teaching a class or volunteering in the nursery.

Would you like to see more on this topic or any other? Please leave a comment.

Mary Ann Romans.

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drnewmom (307) 10 Dec 2008 12:50 PM

I am very interested in preschool information. I have a new baby and have been thinking ahead. I did not go to preschool and in kindergarten I remember learning my ABCs. My neighbor has a 7-year-old and was telling me nowadays, kids are expected to be able to read by the time they get to kindergarten. I mean, I read to him daily and will continue to do so, but wasn't really thinking about structured lessons before school. Just what do kids need to learn by the time the go to school? Why are they expected to know so much more that "we" did 25 years ago? I can see the benefits of preschool, but I can also see an increase in illness. My little one was born 3 months early and a respiratory illness could send him back to the hospital (the reason we pay for a private sitter when I work). Anyhow, I probably won't homeschool formally, but may be interested in it as a pre-school resource. Thank you for addressing this topic!

Mary Ann Romans (26876) 10 Dec 2008 12:59 PM

There is a lot of pressure on children today to meet academic benchmarks, regardless of whether or not they are ready. Much of it has to do with the NCLB Act. How ready they need to be will depending on the school district. In one kindergarten they may only need to know colors and basic shapes, in another they may need to write using "kindergarten" spelling.

Look for future posts addressing this readiness issue and thanks for the comment!

wells25 (147) 10 Dec 2008 04:19 PM

People wonder why the drop out rate is so high now a days. These kids are basically going to school for 2 more years and learning a lot more stuff than we did. By the time they get to 16 or 17 they are burned out. I wish they would just teach them what we were taught. It would enable them to be ready for society and probably wouldn't cost as much.

Valorie Delp (49340) 11 Dec 2008 04:59 AM

Sorry--but I don't buy the burn out theory. I think there are a lot of other factors to consider regarding homeschooling.

Kindergartens do NOT expect a child to read before they get there. They do expect them to know their letters and letter sounds. To be honest, what I see more and more is aggressive parent syndrome. They want their child to be the best and if one kid reads--then by golly gosh they want it to be theres. NCLB doesn't even test for reading in K. . .however, there is pressure for K teachers to have a class reading by then end of K.

Mary Ann Romans (26876) 11 Dec 2008 11:38 AM

Again, I think it depends on the school district. A neighboring district tests incoming Kindergarten students, which puts a lot of pressure on the parents. One part of the test does include "sight reading," or recognizing simple words.

Valorie Delp (49340) 11 Dec 2008 02:00 PM

But see I would say why does that put pressure on parents? Assessing a child where they're at shouldn't put pressure on the parents--yet it does bc they *think* having their child in the *lower* class is a bad thing. Parents frequently fail to recognize that reading is very much developmental. (And educators, unfortunately aren't entirely permitted to tell them!

Mary Ann Romans (26876) 11 Dec 2008 02:07 PM

It puts pressure on the parents because they may think that they failed their child if that child is not accepted into school at the "normal" age.

Dale Harcombe Online! (10327) 11 Dec 2008 02:42 PM

No pre-school doesn't have to be a negative. My son never went to pre-school. I was a stay at home Mom and spent a lot of time with him. He was reading at 4. He never missed out on social interaction either as we went to bibe study that had a children's program, Sunday school and playgroup. Basically he didn't need pre-school and we couldn't afford it anyway.Our daughter went one day a week only because she was unable because of her age to start school till later. Both did well all through school, achieving excellent marks in the exams and getting in the top few percent to get them into the university courses they wanted.

gina00 (680) 11 Dec 2008 03:59 PM

I appreciate this topic. I worked as a Speech/Language Pathologist in the schools & now am staying home to raise our two kids, ages 3 & 2 1/2. Money is tight, & I have been thinking about this topic a lot! Of course, I can easily teach them the basic concepts, shapes, colors, letters, social interacting, etc., but I think there's a "guilt factor," wanting to give your children the very best, and assuming that means a formal preschool program. I really appreciate your writing & enjoy reading all your blogs.

mcmama (51978) 11 Dec 2008 06:58 PM

I have seen the pressure Mary Ann speaks of being put on the parents. The perception is that if your child cannot do all the things they are "supposed" to, that the parents have failed, or that the child is "behind" or needs help. Actually, they just need a bit of time. But I have also seen "the gift of time" - that is holding back the boy with the summer birthday - go amok. It then becomes a type of pushing - and that held back child is expected to be bigger, smarter, faster. In fact, within that year he may have hit a few developmental milestones, and be long PAST ready for Kindergarten - and BORED STIFF.

Valorie Delp (49340) 12 Dec 2008 05:03 AM

Yeah--I understand. But I am very much of the mind set that no one can make you feel guilty unless you give them your permission. It happens in the sand box when jr. can't walk and all his friends can at 9mos. It's not new in preschool. In general, I'm very disappointed in the educational powers that be that talk so much about the wonders of preschool but fail to mention reading as a developmental mile stone (and math too). No one every mentions that several of the top educational programs in the world actually start at 8 or 9.

I'm not opposed to pk--I know there are parents who need it to work etc. but I do wish the entire conversation was different--make sense?

drnewmom (307) 12 Dec 2008 07:46 AM

It makes more sense that reading and math (and other subjects, I presume) are developmental milestones ... I guess public (and private to some extent) achools can't taylor the educational system to each individual ($$$). Here is one place where homeschooling seems to fall in -- if you child is "ahead" or "behind" YOU can control the pace of exposure to new concepts pertaining to whatever subject/task to master next or concurrently. I know that I can't formally homeschool (at least not right now), but I don't see why I couldn't start "preschool" concepts when he seems ready. I would liken this to starting solids based on the child rather than his age. ie. when he can hold head up and/or sit and acts intersted in solid foods, rather than blanketly starting at the 4-6 months that "everybody" says.

Valorie Delp (49340) 12 Dec 2008 09:41 AM

If you are really interested in the homeschooling route for preschool. . .we should talk more. ;-) For awhile there I had my own little preschool I had so many that were that age. . . I still have 3 in the "preschool age" category. You will find that by reading, talking, playing games and doing normal every day things that they will come ahead by far and away than their preschooled peers. It's a fun time because they are sponges. I'm a big fan of the book Better Late than Early--I think it's by Moore. It is pretty anti-preschool but don't rule it out just because of that. It has some really insightful things to say about how children learn--and well worth the read even if you don't come away loving every single piece of information in it. The research therein is very, very solid--and eye opening.

Mikeparent (16) 17 Apr 2009 12:08 AM

Excellent article! I do believe that lot of families will feel that it is quite hard these days to afford preschool, not to mention the ongoing recession.. There is yet another option that Id like to point out here, in case you cannot afford preschool. And that would be to look at kid's websites for preschooling. There are especially a few websites where you dont have to baby sit your kid, always in front of the computer, and instead just let them have fun while learning. One such website I have run into is www.Raylit.com

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