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My Own Theories on Baby Memories

by Valorie Delp | More from this Blogger

09 Mar 2007 10:02 AM

Yesterday, I posted a blog about some research being done on the infant amnesia phenomenon. That is to say that babies remember (according to research) and then they forget. I have mentioned before that I'm not thoroughly convinced that baby research is all that valid. I'm not positive you can truly isolate variables enough to come up with a valid conclusion. However, researchers that are experts in baby behavior insist that after watching tens of thousands of babies, there are consistencies in infant behavior. As for me, I've only intimately watched five babies. I'm obviously not an expert but this is what I've noticed regarding memory in babies under the age of two.

Things They Remember

It stands to reason that I am by now, very good friends with our pediatrician. I have five kids and she's seen all of them through bouts with strep throat, croup, along with their well baby check ups. In case you didn't know, my kids are all about two years apart and that detail is significant to this story.

My pediatrician is one smart lady and she never gives my kids their shots. She makes the nurses do it. With each kid it has taken all of two rounds of shots before they hate the nurse. Every single one of my kids grew up hating people wearing blue scrubs and as you might have guessed that's what the nurse at the doctor's office wears. Not only do they hate people in blue scrubs at that office, they hate blue scrub wearing people in the hospital too.

We were in the ER getting the first of what I'm sure will be many sets of stitches for my son and my twins simply freaked out at the sight of someone who looked sort of like my pediatrician's nurse. . .wearing the tell tale blue scrubs. I think it's because they associate those blue scrubs with getting their shots. I have many more stories of my kids associating those blue scrubs with shots but to put it plainly, I think my kids remember the experience of getting their shots from as early as twelve weeks old.

In the Womb?

I actually think that perhaps babies form memories in the womb. I have yet to give birth to a child who didn't know my voice. Not only that but they know dad's and siblings voices too. They've heard it before and they know that these people belong to them.

The Infant Amnesia Phenomenon

I don't think this is very puzzling but maybe that's because I don't have a degree in science. I think babies forget easily for two reasons. First, they have a lot to accomplish in just a short period of time. This takes a lot of brain energy and well, some things simply are forgotten to "make room" for more pressing matters.

Secondly, I think babies are incapable of putting "tags" on things in the same way adults do which is why they forget easily. Think about something you remember clearly, perhaps directions to go somewhere. If someone simply tells you the directions you are not as likely to remember them as you would be if you actually drove there. Each way in which you receive the directions is a tag. So if you hear the directions, write them down as you hear them and then drive there you would have three "tags" on how to get to that particular place.

Babies on the other hand, can't see or hear acutely when they are very young. They only have so many tags to work with. So perhaps they recognize mom's voice easily, but it will take awhile before they associate (or put 'tags' on) mom's voice and face. It actually doesn't take very long for babies to know mom in this way but it takes longer for babies to remember siblings and other close relatives in this way.

Whether I'm close or way off track, the important thing to know is that, babies are constantly learning and are aware of their surroundings! What about you? What was your earliest memory?

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Hello everybody! My name is Valorie and I am one busy lady! When I'm not writing or editing for families, I am busy trying to get my brood of 5 in line.

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mcmama (51978) 09 Mar 2007 07:30 PM

My youngest son had surgery at 6 weeks and 6 months. He also had a series of ultrasounds, and renal scans. For the first 3 years of his life, the sight of anyone in a white lab coat put him off. So did photographers.

My pediatrician never wore a lab coat for just that reason, and neither did anyone in her office. Always teddy bears or mickey mouse, or something like that.

Valorie Delp (49340) 09 Mar 2007 09:19 PM

My pedi doesn't either. She dresses in plain, regular clothes.

QueenAngie Central Illinois, USA Online! (60106) 09 Mar 2007 09:37 PM

I have to agree with you.

DS#2 at birth was put in the warmer before I got to actually see or hold him. The nurse was cleaning him up, giving him oxygen and the doc was working on me.

I started talking and DS#2 not even 5 minutes old, starts looking all over the room, searching for the source of my voice. He knew my voice, but had not yet seen my face!

Yes, babies do learn in the womb.

Thank you for sharing your expert scientific observations, Valerie!

Valorie Delp (49340) 09 Mar 2007 10:03 PM

LOL! I don't know how 'expert' they are. . .

mcmama (51978) 10 Mar 2007 08:12 PM

Yes, Joe knew my voice too. In those days I had to fight very hard to have him stay in the room. I walked down to the nursery, reminded the nurses that they had agreed to bring him "on demand" and then showed them that he was "demanding" at the top of his lungs. They picked him up and when he heard my voice he stopped screaming, took a big breath, and smiled that big openmouth gerberbaby newborn smile as best he could while turning his head toward me.

You'd think they live just in the moment, but they remember your voice from being in the womb.

Valorie Delp (49340) 11 Mar 2007 05:01 AM

The twins seemed to know each other right off the bat too. When one would cry the other one would turn in that direction. The nursing staff insisted that they were just randomly turning but every time one would turn toward the other in a nursery full of babies. At home too, they seemed to recognize each other even before daddy. That crazy twin thing!

karabu (980) 19 Mar 2007 01:26 AM

Your comment about recognising mom's voice reminds me of a theory I have about my daughter. As an infant, she would giggle and smile whenever we walked past a yard with a barking, snarling, or growling dog. I don't think this is a natural reaction. Most other babies I've seen cry or are affraid of agressive dogs. However, while pregnant, I worked as a veterinary tech, and she listened to barking dogs almost constantly during development. It was probably almost as familiar as my own voice to her. I think it must be connected.

Valorie Delp (49340) 19 Mar 2007 04:42 AM

I'm sure there's a connection. I think that babies feel stress, happiness and all that in the womb. . .any emotion that's linked to hormone levels. So when you're happy and all is well you have less cortisol I think it is?! So I think babies remember things and make associations based on that. It would make sense that she'd be happy when hearing a barking dog: when you were a vet tech, you were likely on your feet so little bubs was being rocked to sleep to the lovely sound of barking dogs. . .

Kara Online! (21380) 20 Aug 2007 05:33 PM

I remember standing on my porch and the snow was taller than I was. My mom said I was 6 months old at that time. It's really just a picture in my head though. That's how all my early early memories are. I also remember being in a room with lots of really tall men in black suits with red beards my mom said it was my great grandma's funeral and she was very surprised I remembered any of that because I was only 3 months old.

gborosoccer7 (80) 24 Feb 2009 04:51 PM

This blog is very interesting to me. It makes me think that maybe my fears that I have now in my teenage years are from experinces I had as a baby.I am afraid of horses but I have absolutly no reason to, untill I asked my mom one day. She explained to me that when I was about a year old we went camping, while sitting in the car a horse put its head in my window and I guess that apparently scared me but now i have a reason for why I am scared of horses.

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