Did You Choose Godparents for Your Baby?

by Valorie Delp | More from this Blogger

09 Apr 2008 04:38 AM

The concept of having godparents comes out of more liturgical traditions such as Catholicism. Different denominations have different "qualifications" for being a godparent. For example, in some churches it is suggested that the godparent be a member of the same church. However, I rather like the concept of having godparents--regardless of whether or not you're religious and so bear with me for a minute here.

Godparents are supposed to take the time necessary to build a special relationship with your child. They are supposed to share with them values and morals and take a vested interest in their lives. Obviously, choosing a godparent would mean choosing someone who shares similar morals and values and you and your spouse. But I rather like the idea of choosing a mentor of sorts for your baby before he even needs mentoring.

It Takes a Village

I have always found this to be true. We live in a society that likes to say that we don't need anyone's help parenting, and that we know best. You don't tell me what to do with my baby and I won't tell you what to do with yours. While I certainly advocate trusting your instincts, having someone who will take a vested interest in your child with you is an incredible asset in the parenting journey. Picking someone who will do that with you is a trick--but well worth the effort.

What If You're Not Religious

I know some of you reading this may be thinking that's fine and dandy but you're not religious. Never underestimate the power of loving adults in your child's life. I would suggest to you that rather than choosing godparents, you choose "mentors". Or just sit down and have a conversation about the role you'd like that person to play in your child's life.

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Dale Harcombe (10373) 09 Apr 2008 08:51 PM

Our daughter's godparents, (she has three - two godmothers and a godfather,) none of which belonged to the church my husband and I went to at the time. They were however stong, Bible believing Christians albeit of a different denomination. Our minister did not have a problem with that. I had been actively involved with both women in bible study groups and one was my prayer partner. They have remained active in our daughter's life and if anything had happened to us my daughter would have been cared for by the coouple as though she was their own.

Valorie Delp (49340) 10 Apr 2008 01:31 AM

That's an important point Dale. I can't believe I forgot to mention that! ;-)